The Secrets We Forget To Tell

It’s not always the overplayed hyper-sexuality that men find attractive in women, but rather, the radiance of a genuineness that emanates from being every asset of “yourself”. We don’t always need you to be the pinup that ravages us with your sexual voracity–while nice, it’s not a necessity— because true lasting romance doesn’t build its foundation in lust. Men want to be able to relate in even the most simple of ways; the simple companionship that you would desire in a true friend, with a bond that permeates to a greater, more substantial depth. In essence, we don’t want a plastic fuck doll that acquiesces to our every whim, and defines her self-worth in said farcical relationships as a mere sexual vessel. Personally(and I can’t speak for everyone), but self-respect is the most attractive quality in a female. In a woman knowing her true worth and accepting nothing less than what she deems the best. It’s so heartbreakingly alluring because it’s a twining to one’s own soul, and knowing that your not in a constant tug-of-war of who is the dominant force in the relationship; of who calls the “shots”, and all the ridiculous tyranny that men and women deem fit to enact upon one another in these sick parasitic bonds they call a relationship; but rather it’s progressing towards the sublime greatness of love together as equals. So next time your worth is defined by your body and how much pleasure can be extracted from it, just question what it is you want out of the situation, and more importantly if your content with it. If you take anything from here let it be this; while men and women want to complicate what they truly want in a significant other, it boils down to finding someone that compliments you in every facet of your life, because if a part of the whole is lacking, you doom yourself to the self full-filling prophecy of unsatiated desire instead of embracing the salvation in true contentment.